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Will He Remember You Tomorrow?

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Monday, 26 January 2009 00:00

If you are single, want to date, and met someone attractive at a party, would they remember you and call you tomorrow? Do you know how to stand out in a crowd? What is your unforgettable identity?

Being a dating single requires that you define yourself in a way that is memorable. It's a lot like marketing a product--you need an unmistakable brand. It isn't the best-looking or brainiest person who gets the dates. Presentation and intelligence are only part of multiple factors that contribute to your being remembered. Will he remember you tomorrow? Think about the following:

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How People Fall In Love

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Monday, 19 January 2009 00:00

Would you like to fall in love? Are you single, dating, and looking for a long term relationship? There are six elements that have been identified by counselors, therapists, and researchers that determine if someone will fall in love with you. They are:

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Dating A Serial Cheater? How Serial Cheaters Can Seduce You

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Monday, 12 January 2009 00:00

Serial cheaters are not always easy to spot. They are sincere, seductive, and charming. One woman I know met someone she instantly liked. After two dates, she was electrified. The chemistry was so intense she couldn’t see the cheating signs written on his forehead. Blinded by his charisma, she didn’t recognize that she was just one girl in a long succession of girls. When she discovered he was cheating on her with several other women he thought he was in love with too, she lamented, “All men cheat. I have never met one who didn’t.”

If you attract cheaters, it will help if you notice the patterns of behavior you both have BEFORE you get involved. He can’t operate alone. You are his accomplice. This statement is not meant to place blame, but rather, to help you understand that you don’t have to keep being a target. You do have control over your life. How does he seduce you?

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Does Your Ex Want Sex?

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Monday, 05 January 2009 00:00

If your Ex wants to have sex with you, he may appear at your door at unexpected times. He may say that he forgot to pick something up when he moved out. He might suddenly begin to act nice and say all the things you wish he had said when you were together. He might even talk about how much he has changed and grown and how he wishes you could know him now. If you have children together, the issue of reconnecting becomes even more difficult, because as everyone knows, kids just want their parents to kiss and wake up.

But if your Ex wants sex, beware. Even though it would be easy to slip into your old routines, you would be crossing an invisible line that you would probably regret. Before you even consider getting into bed with him (or her), think about the following:

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Holiday Dating: Don't Be Frosty The Snowman

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Monday, 29 December 2008 00:00

Would you like to be dating during the holidays? Like Frosty the Snowman, do you live without hugs, watch people at play all around you, and stand alone when everyone else goes home at night? Worst of all, do you worry that you will melt and disappear at the first sign of warmth?

The good news is that even if you are alone, you do not have to act like Frosty. In fact, the holidays are a perfect time to step out of your usual habits, haunts, and hide-a-ways and meet someone. Snowmen obviously do not have the choices that you do. So forget the Frosty routine of being stuck in the same place, doing the same things, getting the same results.

Let go of your attitude that there is nowhere to go, no one to meet, and nothing you can do about it. It’s not your appearance of an icy statue that needs melting, it’s your frozen outlook, cold and indifferent to what your soul longs for.

Let’s get your Frosty self ready for love. Follow these steps:

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