Is He Interested?
Saturday, 07 May 2011 19:10
Here are five signs that you’ve got his attention. If you notice any of the following, he is probably interested:
* He’s “just asking” about you
He asks other people who you are and where you’re from or he tells a friend you both know that he wants to find out more about you. He’s trying to act like he’s “just asking” but his questions seem like more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he hopes it gets back to you.
* The eyes
He makes eye contact and then gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even though he is across the room, “that look” he has says it all. It is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then you think you notice the beginning of a smile.
* The questions
He moves close enough to ask you questions. He appears to be listening to what you say. As he talks, you can tell he’s moving to the ultimate question, which is: “Are you seeing anyone?” He would only ask this question if he wanted to date you, and he hopes the answer is “No.” Remember: Never ever wear a ring in public. When a guy is across the room, he can’t tell which finger it’s on and he may assume incorrectly that you are taken. If he doesn’t ask you this question, he may ask someone whom you both know.
* His unexpected appearance
When he shows up out of nowhere, he’s probably been asking people about your schedule, or he has been paying attention to where you’re going and at what time. A sudden, “Oh, hi.” is his way of saying, “I don’t want to seem obvious, but I am interested in you.” If you feel the same way, don’t act shy. Stop and talk to him.
* EVERYONE’S reaction to you
When you are well liked and a happy person, why wouldn’t he like you? Of course he does. If you don’t have a life you admire or feel happy about however, now is your time to start working on one. Wondering whether or not he likes you could start with the questions:
- Do I like me? If not, why don’t I?
- Am I proud of myself?
- What can I do about my life that would make me feel proud or safe or successful?
Taking some little steps to a better life can lead to some big results.
These are five signs that he is interested and he is on the verge of asking you out. Make it easy for him and be friendly. This is where relationships begin.