How Do You Find Love?

Thursday, 19 May 2011 18:13

In Yvonne Oswald's book, "Every Word Has Power," she makes a strong case for the fact that you can only love someone else as much as you love yourself.  The more you are connected with yourself, the better you can connect with others.

I have written often of the high energy emotions of excitement, enthusiasm, joy, and happiness, and how when you radiate this kind of electricity, you not only shine...you attract!  But what can you do if you're not having these feelings?  Think about the following:

First, put a reasonable plan in place to build your foundational bricks under you.  You need something solid to stand on.  When you have...or are honestly working towards having...a career, savings, friends, hobbies, health, and personal growth, you will be able to sustain the positive energy that is irresistible to others.

Second, here is a secret that will work for your "down" times while you are putting your life in order.  You can trick your unconscious into believing you are happy by SMILING as often as possible...and literally keeping your CHIN UP.

Holding your chin in a slightly raised position, smiling, and staying focused on a positive vision for your future can pull you out of the doldrums.  Try it.

How do you find love?  Start with getting happy.